Some preschoolers are naturally outgoing, talkative, and eager to form relationships. Others are more reserved and need a little prompting to interact with others. From ages 3-5, children are learning to be independent in their thoughts, feelings, and actions. They are building a sense of what makes them unique and they begin seeking similar characteristics in others. Empathy begins to develop at this age, allowing them to understand the feelings of others. How can you help when a child is having a difficult time interacting with peers and others? Try these tips!
1. Social stories: Read, read, read! In addition to the words on the page, add comments and questions about the story. For example, to build empathy, ask your child, “How do you think the boy felt when that happened?” You can role play using a story too. For instance, “The girl in the story just moved to a new city. What could we do to welcome a new neighbor?” Need a social story to read with your child? Ask our speech therapists! They routinely work on social skills and have many to share!
2. Use technology. Is your preschooler a whiz at using an iPad but struggles with a telephone call? Combine them! Jocelyn (one of our speech-language pathologists) says, “Have your child use Facetime to call a family member or friend! They’ll feel the comfort of using technology from home but reap the benefits of face-to-face interactions.” These conversations will help them learn skills such as back and forth conversation, opening and closing greetings, and active listening.
3. Explore your community. Local gathering places have ample social opportunities for children. Libraries, kid gyms, playgrounds, bookstores (and even home improvement stores!) often have activities for kids where they can interact with others. Look for classes that target social skill training. We have one here at Justabout Pediatric Therapy! Our class is geared toward developing critical social skills while engaging in fun, age-appropriate motor and communication activities. If you’d like to register, call or email us. Hurry! Class begins in October and registration closes soon!
Need more help with social and communication skills for your child? Call us to consult with one of our therapists or go to the “New Patient Information” tab on our website to request an appointment. We’ll call you to discuss the details.